'Old Delhi is chaos and Greater Noida is silence', two worlds I navigate and experience as an inhabitant of both.
The world of Shahajahanabad is where I was born at a Nursing Home at Nai Sarak, the most central, chaotic middle part of Old Delhi, after nearly thirty years of life at Shahjahanabad, I shifted to Greater Noida almost a decade back.
Greater Noida (or GreNo) provided me a home as a refuge, solace and support when I needed it the most in my life. Its long winding, quiet, green, tall trees shaded roads often my companion of long walks, heard all my complaints, rants, songs and helped me heal with their silent presence. I often feel that just like Delhi is the City of Djinns, GreNo may also have some of the relatives, extended families of those Delhi Djinns who came for a holiday and decided to stay back here (for solitude and greenery like me!).
Both cities are very different yet very similar in many ways, especially in their celebrations. The celebrations here are never limited to individual homes but often spill on the streets and are loud, noisy, community shared and shape local identities.
So, at Old Delhi (Bazar Sitaram), having grown up seeing many Dussehras at Ramlila Maidan (Delhi) it has become a matter of habit to attend Ravan Dahans wherever I maybe. The shared community festivals regardless of faith, become an experience for the residents' of the particular localities and the dominant festivities take over the sensibilities of the residents. Visiting Durga Puja Pandals or Ramlila in the calendar month of October was a regular feature whichever city I resided in.
Some people believe that Ravan was born at Greater Noida as per local legend at Bisrakh village. Shiva built a palace of gold for Parvati on an island, called Lanka. As Parvati wished to enter her home, an ardent search for a suitable priest began, which ended on Ravana. He performed the yagna but demanded Lanka as dakshina in return.* Dussehra is not celebrated in Bisrakh Village, the only place in UP where Ramlila is not organised.
This year during the Dussehra/ VijayDashmi festival, I experienced something strangely unsettling at GreNo and hence, is the reason for me writing this blog-post after such a long time, as a form of catharsis.
It raised a question that has been haunting me: When hate arrives at your doorstep, do you stay silent or speak up?
At Ravan Dahan this year, my housing society erected the effigies of Ravan and his brothers outside the Market Complex in the large Parking area. As crowds started coming in for the Ravan Dahan, someone started playing hate-filled Hindutva Pop at the Music system for the public.
Hindutva Pop* is political, not devotional or spiritual music to be played at festivals and is often the cause for increasing conflict among communities. I was dismayed, pained, anguished at the choice of such music at MY residential society. Something I had never heard in a decade of stay here. Hindutva Pop is a genre of hate-filled violent lyrics mostly directed at Muslims'.
At Christ College (deemed to be University in early 2025), we had invited journalist Kunal Purohit who has a book on H-pop for a talk. The discussion became very political (of course!) leaving Left-Right ideological divisions exposed of/for the audience.
I registered my disappointment (not shock!) at the kind of music that played just before the Dahan at all the Housing society WhatsApp groups and on Mygate app via a message post. My friends/family were concerned and advised that I should refrain from visiting festival spaces or saying anything about this.
In another context, someone had shared a post that has stayed with me:
“If you see something wrong happening around you and ignore it, a small matter may soon grow into something much bigger. That is why it is important to call out the wrong when it happens, otherwise the wrong gets normalised as right and starts dancing on our heads.”
(loose translation from a WhatsApp message)
As we see the rise of right-wing majoritarian politics and performative religious festivals around the world, we also need to reclaim shared, safe spaces. Spaces, where local communities can celebrate, exchange dialogue and build solidarities across faiths.
Because silence too is a choice, and often it is the most dangerous one!
Our Ravan here resembled Dali as per a friend.Title from Zia Mazkoor's she'r: Humko neeche utaar lenge log ......Ishq Latka rahega Pankhe se
References:
www.indiatoday.in/india/story/ravana-greater-noida-demon-king-delhi-ncr-bishrakh-dussehra-345906-2016-10-10
https://time.com/6242156/hindutva-pop-music-anti-muslim-violence-india/
Kunal Purohit’s H-Pop: The Secretive World of Hindutva Pop Stars



